Most people think online dating just continues to grow and become a norm in society, but the truth is online dating may have hit its peak, so has the frustration with the results.

You guys are going to want to stick around for the rest of this  because I’m gonna break down the big flaw with online dating that, and give you a huge advantage to stand out with women while all the other guys are lazy.

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Online Dating 

I’m a millennial and one of the older ones that I know I may not look like it, but I’ve been around through all the stages of when meeting somebody online. 

I’ve been through when it was taboo to now it’s common place, so I have a good understanding of the impact has for both sides.

Hell, the first person I ever met online was when they first brought those random chat rooms and you really had no idea who you were chatting with, and really no way to verify there was no LinkedIn there was no Instagram or Facebook.

I actually mailed physical photos of myself to her address and she sent some of her to mine. Now we both could’ve been lying. I was probably 15 at the time so we never actually met in person. We lived about 5 1/2 hours away. Now the beauty and ease that’s made online dating what it is today is also its curse .

And I will tell you, women are more frustrated than ever with how things are going guys online , and it’s not going to get any better for them.    

This is why would I teach transcends technological advancement, because as of right now they don’t have enough updates where you’re banging a cyborg full-time, so you still need to have that in person connection confidence, which is really gonna matter with women.

AI WINGMAN?

I saw an article late last year talking about how dating apps are about to change for the future introducing all these technological advancements with AI including better matching which OK they’re gonna match based on interest maybe a variety of other things but that doesn’t guarantee anything.

One of the parts of the article that interest me was them hyping up AI wingman, which would essentially be like Chatbot responding to messages and they’re advertising as if it’s some great advancement that’s gonna help guys when the reality is it’s only going to widen the divide.

What’s going to happen? 

Sure maybe your AI wingman will be nice and crafty with all these messages and responses but if that’s what guys are relying on and we see it now this generation they’re becoming lazier and super reliant on the technology., when you get her in person, she’s gonna sniff you out right away that you essentially don’t know how to talk to her or interact with her face-to-face.

And no matter how much technology they continue to implement the end of the day best thing you can do is be able to interact and understand how to talk to women.

Your Advantage, Guys

Do not click off this video before hearing this; you need to hear this out to understand the reality or else you’re just gonna brush it off and put yourself at a huge disadvantage.

There are tons of frustrated women all over the Internet, posting TikTok, posting Instagram reels complaining about how men approach them anymore, and this is a byproduct of a society you’ve created with technology and with weak beta males, and the attack on masculinity.

This means make it a point in your daily life, no matter where you are at the mall at a restaurant to interact with women and treat them all the same. You don’t even have to ask them out just make it a point to have pleasurable conversation without that intent.

Build rapport talk about topics have confidence have humour banter, build your social skills with women because that is going to set you apart completely in the future while other guys think it’s fantastic and are being told “

Look how much I can help my life with AI, they’re gonna flame out big-time as soon as they get on date with these women and you’re gonna be laughing all the way home.

So if you build up your social skills and your confidence and understand that it’s a Numbers game, you should have no fear of being rejected

Think about it when you’re applying for jobs you go on there and you throw your résumé into 100 rolls you don’t care what are the chances you get called back

Job markets are becoming increasingly difficult, but that doesn’t stop you from just throwing them in and see what happens. The same mentality needs to apply with women.

It’s a complete mindset of abundance and indifference.

I will tell you firsthand from somebody who is traditionally introverted when I shifted this mindset, even just going and approaching a woman that you’re interested in and striking a conversation to see if if you could get her on a date 

You will probably get rejected most of the time, it is a NUMBERS GAME. A lot of women will be gracious if you approach them the right way and maybe they reject you but they’re kind about it and they appreciate that you had the confidence to go up to them.

You walk out of that interaction on a bit of a high because you’re proud of yourself, trust me, go try it out for yourself. This is like practice and you doing the right things consistently is gonna build up and snowball in a positive manner . Your skills and comfortability are gonna compound.

Every time you do it, it’s gonna become easier and you’re gonna start to see results. Build up the confidence and understand the mindset and you’re unstoppable. Quick story of mine; I was introverted and shy when I was younger, no doubt.

When I was around probably 17 years old, and you think I knew nothing about a woman in my 20s, 17 I had no clue what I was doing.

I was in one of the malls in my city, and a girl was working at a retail store that I was really attracted to, and it was towards closing time of the mall.

Now, like I said, I was shy so I didn’t do this almost at all when I was younger, I would always check out if I saw a girl, I was attracted to, but I built the courage out to go talk to this one that day just as the store was closing.

She was very friendly, and I asked her for her number, she didn’t give me her number, but she gave me a paper and said hey write down your number. So I did and gave it to her.

Now I know what you’re all thinking, and I know it now back then I didn’t know that was essentially her being nice and rejecting me in a kind way she was never gonna call me or text me, because she never gave me her number, so her interest was obviously low.

And I guess I sort of knew that, and I never got a call or text from her. But I walked out of that mall confident as hell it just felt good to go out and do it make that approach take that chance.

so this is why I say, start now.

For you younger guys in your 20s, I’m telling you listen to me but really for guys of any ages it doesn’t matter start today, grow that confidence by just talking to women in public spaces in a positive way with confidence. 

Conclusion

So while the apps continue to grow, the technology continues to grow, the features continue to grow and all these guys are using them, the women are gonna continuously get more frustrated with the results of getting when they actually meet up in person.

You were gonna be the guy that comes along, that breath of fresh air, and confidence that talks to them in person and you’re gonna be so contrasting to the rest of the guys you put yourself at a huge advantage in the day in the world.

Start now and focus on, doing it in your daily habits. I promise you the results will be worth it.

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